The Real On Reading “Real” Books


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I will start this by first saying: WARNING—THIS IS AN OPINION PIECE!

Why? Because if you’ve been around my blog enough, you know I don’t typically do opinion pieces, but it’s my blog and with all the latest crap going down in Romancelandia, I’m feeling salty.

So, here we go.

The great “debate” over which format someone reads in has raged on in the Twitterverse and Facebook land, and I’m sure other places as well.

Are you really “reading” if you listen to audiobooks?

Are e-books “really” books? (no seriously I’ve seen that question).

Then it’s my fave of “I just like the FEEL or better the SMELL of a ‘real’ book.

I mean the list goes on and on.

Putting how ableist some of those come off, there is another issue I *think* comes into play. Before we get to that, I’ll break down ableist if it’s a term you’re not familiar with. When a person is of able body, meaning not having any sort of disability, and they view their world and expectations of others through that same lens = ableist.

So when some “real book” purist comes along and makes their generic comment about audiobooks they don’t take into account people with visual impairments. Inevitably someone will comment on this fact, and the back peddling begins, usually in the wording of “I didn’t mean THOSE people.”

Get the gist? Same will come about the feel of the book and those that have a hard time holding things will have to cut a vein and bleed their pain to make their reading choices valid. It goes on and on.

Elitism! Privilege! Whatever you want to call it, that’s what screams out from behind those “innocent” posts about “real” books.

But oh, it doesn’t stop there. There is also the issue with gatekeeping. So if you’re not part of the romance community you won’t be aware of the current shit storm brewing. Want a peek? Search #Ritasowhite on Twitter. Or go take a look at the Ripped Bodice’s diversity in publishing report.


How? Those that tout they only read “real” books are basically saying their reading list consists 99% (not a fact based number) of non-PoC (people of color) authors. Because, no matter how some want to bury their head in the sand and pretend racism and/or sexism aren’t an issue, the publishing world still thumbs their nose at people from a marginalized background. It’s one of the reasons the #ownvoices moment kicked off.

But if that wasn’t enough, it also means they are reading about 99% (also not a fact based number) only “traditionally” published books. Because you know there are the snobs that look down their noses at indie publishing.

And I get it, it has its faults. There have been the bad apples publishing their first drafts. Cutting corners and putting out shotty work in the hopes of making a quick buck. There is a stigma attached to being an indie writer that all indie writers have to fight. And some of us are putting in the time, effort, and MONEY to put out good products.

But you aren’t going to find our books at your local indie bookstore let alone the big box stores. AoC, specifically Black authors, are self-publishing in higher numbers because the publishing industry keeps the doors locked and the lights off.

“Real” book readers are ignoring that fact. And I’m not trying to dictate how anyone spends their hard earned dollars. Do you. But don’t think your choice makes you any better than the next person. Because then your privilege is showing.

Next time you’re out there sniffing your book, think about that.

Until next time



3 thoughts on “The Real On Reading “Real” Books

  1. AuthorSarahKrewis says:

    I loved how real this post is. Thank you for sharing. I’ll admit, I didn’t see the appeal of an audio book, but you gave me a new perspective. It makes sense. However, I’d never say they were “real” books, that’s crazy! Someone had to write the story you’re listening to, right? Anyway, I have made it my goal this year to seek out PoC authors. If you have any recommendations, please share! I am so sick of the racism going on in the industry. Writers are writers and shouldn’t be judge on the basis of skin color or sex. Anyway, I could write a whole post about this but I won’t. I’ve never “reblogged” anything but mind if I share this post in a future blog post?

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  2. AuthorSarahKrewis says:

    oh my goodness the typos in that last post!


    *I love how real this is
    * I’d never say they WEREN’T real books
    *I’m sick of Racism period, not just this industry

    Gah! I need to go to bed.

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    • Meka James says:

      I get it on the audiobooks. They aren’t for me, I blame hearing my kids watching too many YouTube videos. hahaha. But others enjoy and for some it’s the only way they can read and people shouldn’t be made to feel like they have to defend how they enjoy a book. Plain and simple. Yeah the racism is there and thanks to social media it’s becoming way more out in the open. It sucks, and seriously disheartening. Feel free to share the post.

      As for recs, it depends on what you like to read. is a great resource. They make it easy to search through the different genres. Pink Heart Society just did a post on various PoC authors in different genres as well:

      Thanks for stopping by. 🙂


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